Your boyfriend

Dear FutureMe, The last couple of weeks have been so stressful. My boyfriend broke up with me and said he never wanted to see me again, cause he thought I'd been seeing someone else and lying that I was doing otherwise. Crazy. I thought it was over, but it turns out I really love this guy and I chose for you to stay with him in the future. I've decided to forgive him and let him stay in our lives. This has caused a major strain in my relationship with one of my best friends, who had invited me to got to the beach last weekend. I turned her down so that I'd be able to travel with my boyfriend and see if we could work things out. I haven't been a complete bitch, though. She was really rude to me the day before we were supposed to go to the beach, we had an argument and she said I always play the victim. She really hurt me, and so I decided not to go with her, and accept my boyfriend's invitation. The trip with him was strange. We kept arguing in the beginning, and then he played "Jealous Guy" by John Lennon on YouTube for me, and we finally could get along after that cute gesture. But I am so touchy right now. Anything he does upsets me... just any, little, stupid thing. It's been hard for us to keep it cool. Anyhow, I love him and I believe we can make things right, though it doesn't feel this way now. I am so afraid I have just set you up for more pain... I should know what things are more important and stop anything in its tracks that could possibly hurt you or make you unhappy. But I can't possibly know what will happen to you and I make the best choices I can. I am sorry if you have suffered as a result of this choice I've made. So what I really want to know is, are you still in love with that guy? Does he make you happy, does he make it better or worse to wake up every day? Does he treat you right? Does he still take you out on fancy dinners, and wonderful weekend getaways? Is your family still happy that you're together? Does it look like he wants to make you his wife in the future? And what about your friend? Are you still on good terms? Could you two forget what happened this weekend, could you still be close after that? Well I hope everything turned out fine for you, and if it didn't at least I hope this can be useful for us to have learnt a lesson. I love you and I really hope you're taking care of yourself and making sure you're happy most of the time. All the best, Your PastMe